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Day 10 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 9, 2016
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Think back to a teacher you had in your life who positively impacted you. It could be they inspired you, or taught you about a part of yourself, or woke up a love of learning a particular subject in you. It could be they taught you formally, or maybe just taught you through their example.

This might be your 4th grade teacher who took your class bird watching in Cape May and taught you about wildflowers. This could be your kindergarten teacher who taught you how to share. Or your best friend’s mother that always had a kind word and inspiring insights. Or that acquaintance that always inspired you through her example. This could be anyone who has touched your life and taught you in any way, shape or form.

Think of this person, and realize what a gift it is to have teachers, mentors, and inspirations in our lives. Now pick up the phone, or a pen (or your email) and thank this person for the impact they made in your life.

By Yael Zvia Bauer

Here is a shiur with great insights on the importance of living a life of gratitude and the meaning of the tefilla Nishmat Kol Chai:   CLICK HERE

For no particular reason say ‘Thank you Aba, I love You and thank you for giving me life!’

Day 9 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 8, 2016
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We have so many blessings in our lives that we don’t even notice because they happen all the time. They seem so commonplace that we completely miss them and take them for granted.

A conscious focus on gratitude may also remind you of unassuming pluses that get lost in the ups and downs of a busy life. “The most important blessings are the ones that are most consistent,” such as family, health and home, says Philip Watkins, an Eastern Washington University psychologist. “And those are the ones we take for granted.” Grateful reflection helps you pick out and savor the good in life, even if the good isn’t flashy.
 
Today, let’s focus on a blessing that seems so normal that we barely give it a second thought, let alone feeling gratitude for it. By doing so, we can tune in to the miracles unfolding all around us all the time. Here’s one example:
 
What a blessing that the sun came up today – bringing with it freshness and renewal.
 
At night, when our world is dark and we can’t see clearly, it’s easy for things to feel scary and overwhelming. But the darkest hour is just before dawn. And what a gift that today the sun came up to shine light into the world and remind us experimentally about the energy of renewal and rebirth.

By Yael Zvia Bauer

For no particular reason say ‘Thank you Aba, I love You and thank you for giving me life!’

Day 8 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 7, 2016
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Gratitude is a muscle that needs to be developed. It takes work, and doesn’t often come naturally.

I spoke to a lady yesterday, who found herself in a cranky mood. She was exhausted since her baby had started waking up for the day at 5 am these last few weeks. Then she discovered him taking all the dirt out of her (newly germinated) balcony garden and throwing it everywhere in her living room. As she took him in the stroller for a change of scenery, she had a whole laundry list of complaints in her head. Starting with her baby throwing dirt and her being so tired from being woken up so early, and continued to other people and other areas of her life. One complaint seemed to lead to another…
 
But then, an amazing thing happened. She was reminded of this awesome teaching from Rebbe Nachman ztk’l that “a person should smile, especially when they don’t have anything to smile about, and G-d will give them a reason to smile.”
 
So, she forced herself to smile (when she really, truly, was not in the smiling mood). And the most amazing thing happened. Nothing miraculous, like a winning lottery ticket falling from the sky. But, she began to think of reasons to smile. Deciding to smile with this intention helped to stir within her the gratitude muscle that needed building.
 
She found herself starting with the obvious:

  • I have a baby who throws dirt!? Wow, I have a baby!
  • He is healthy!
  • And curious!
  • And interested in the world!
  • And is fascinated in everything! That is a massive blessing!
  • And, wow, I have legs that are working right now so I can take this walk!
  • And, I have a bed waiting for me at home, that (whenever I have an opportunity) I will be able to rest comfortably!
  • The sun is setting a beautiful shade of pink and orange!

It took work to get herself into a gratitude mindset, but once she did, one thing led to another. And even though she was still tired, she also felt energized and much calmer and happier.

Here is a shiur with great insights on the importance of living a life of gratitude and the meaning of the tefilla Nishmat Kol Chai:   CLICK HERE

For no particular reason say ‘Thank you Aba, I love You and thank you for giving me life!’

Day 7 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 6, 2016
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Gratitude cultivating idea: Create a wall of miracle pages. Tape up pages to your wall, and each night write 3 (little or big) miracles you experienced that day.

In these gratitude letters detail the kindnesses of someone you’ve never properly thanked and see Hashem’s Divine Providence in it. Read this letter aloud to the person you’re thanking, you’ll see measurable improvements in your mood. Studies show that for a full month after a “gratitude visit” (in which a person makes an appointment to read the letter to the recipient), happiness levels tend to go up, while boredom and other negative feelings go down. In fact, the gratitude visit is more effective than any other exercise in positive psychology.

It is a wonderful way to express your gratitude to Hashem everyday… For no particular reason but to say ‘Thank you Aba, I love You and thank you for giving me life!’

Day 5 & 6 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 4, 2016
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In the Hebrew language, there are 16 words for ‘gratitude,’ – each with a slightly different nuance. Through this we can learn that gratitude is such a fundamental, important part of being Jewish. And that the concept of gratitude is multi-dimensional, with many different shades and flavors. Here are a few:

  • There is one word in Hebrew for gratitude that means to appreciate the gifts we have in our lives.
  • Then there is another word that reflects the deeper level of finding the good even in the challenges that we face.
  • Another expression of gratitude teaches us to tell over our personal miracles to others – to share our miracle stories with our families, with our friends, even with strangers.

Choose one of these ways to express your appreciation today!

Wishing you all a great Shabbat 🙂

It is a wonderful way to express your gratitude to Hashem everyday… For no particular reason but to say ‘Thank you Aba, I love You and thank you for giving me life!’

Day 4 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 3, 2016
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Gratitude is a sentiment we’d all do well to cultivate, according to positive psychologists, mental health clinicians and researchers who seek to help everyone create more joy in life. Feeling thankful and expressing that thanks makes you happier and heartier.

The biggest bonuses come from experiencing gratitude habitually, but natural ingrates needn’t despair. Simple exercises can give even skeptics a short-term mood boost, and once you get started, you find more and more things to be grateful for.

In our holy books, it is brought down that when a person publicly tells of a miracle that has happened to him, G-d calls over His angels to listen, and turn, makes miracles happen for everyone who is listening. Imagine turning every family dinner, or every time you meet a friend for coffee as an opportunity to bring such celebration through all the worlds.

Gratitude idea: Make your family mealtime a regular time for sharing the (little and big) miracles you each experienced throughout your day.
 
A wonderful way to express your gratitude to Hashem everyday… For no particular reason just say ‘Thank you Aba, I love You and thank You for giving me life!’

Day 3 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 2, 2016
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Gratitude is an emotion expressing appreciation for what one has—as opposed to, for example, a consumer-driven emphasis on what one wants. Gratitude is getting a great deal of attention as a facet of positive psychology. Studies show that we can deliberately cultivate gratitude, and can increase our well-being and happiness by doing so. In addition, gratefulness—and especially expression of it to others—is associated with increased energy, optimism and empathy.

Gratitude isn’t our default setting, we have to work hard to cultivate it. It’s a muscle that needs to be built – little by little, every day. 

Gratitude isn’t a reaction, it’s a choice. It is not caused by good things happening. It is what we choose to focus on – in the midst of whatever is happening.  For five minutes today focus only on the good and thank Hashem for it!

Day 2 ~ Global Gratitude Revolution

March 1, 2016
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Life is full of miracles. The key is to understand that the greatest miracles are those of every day life. A person that is very sick knows what a miracle it is to be able to walk, to eat, to be able to go to the bathroom.
 
We can find miracles in so many little moments. My baby looks up and delights in a bird flying overhead. He reminds me that every butterfly and every blade of grass is fascinating. Imagine if we could adjust our eyes to see the miracles in our everyday lives. If we could see the world with eyes like a baby, we could remember how amazing and miraculous every moment is.

The prayer of Nishmat Kol Chai, The prayer of the soul of every living being can be found here in Hebrew: click here and here is English:  click here

It is a wonderful way to express your gratitude to Hashem everyday… For no particular reason but to say ‘Thank you Aba, I love You and thank You for giving me life!’

Day 1: Making the change from taking for granted to taking in gratefully

February 29, 2016
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DAY 1 OF THE GLOBAL GRATITUDE REVOLUTION: 

Today, as we launch into our 40 Days of Gratitude there is such a special energy. Purim is a little less than a month away and had it not been a leap year, we would have experienced the simcha of Purim already.  So let’s tune our hearts in to the vibration of gratitude. 

Pick something that you are about to eat today. It can be anything. Let’s say an orange. Before eating it, take 2 minutes to think about all the steps involved along the way that made it possible for you to eat this orange. All the helpers along the way:

  • The farmer that planted the orange seed many years ago;
  • The rain and sun and soil that nourished it for years while it grew into a blossoming tree;
  • The worker who picked and collected the orange;
  • The other worker that packaged it and sent it out;
  • The truck driver that drove it from the farm to the store;
  • The gas attendant, that helped the truck driver fill up gas on his way delivering the package of oranges to the grocery store;
  • The worker who unloaded it and displayed it at the store;
  • The money you had to buy the orange (and wherever that money came from, whoever is contributed to getting you the money you needed to buy the orange);
  • The legs that were working for you to walk to the store (and/or the car that was working to drive you to the store) and the hands that were working for you to pick up that orange

Now, take a quiet moment before you taste that first bite and say thank you.
And enjoy your orange!

40 Days of Gratitude: Join the Gratitude Revolution

February 17, 2016
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Dedicated to the hatzlocha and teshuva of Jenya Tzvi Hirsch ben Anna Chaya Leah and Noah Daniel & Moshe b’nei Leah Chana among all of Klal Yisrael, Amen!

Why Gratitude? Why 40 Days?

What type of glasses do we put on each morning?

How do we choose to look at the world?

Do we look for the blessings in our lives –

Or do we blind ourselves by focusing on what we are lacking?

The essence of being a Jew is gratitude. The Hebrew word for Jewish is Yehudim, which describes an outpouring of giving thanks. 40 days is how long it takes to change a habit. If we each work actively on cultivating gratitude in our lives for 40 days – rather than complaints and entitlements – what a different world we would live in!

Come join the GRATITUDE REVOLUTION! Increasing your appreciation in life will increase your emuna!

As the world is waking up after the cold, dark winter and getting ready to blossom – let us cultivate within ourselves the trans formative power of gratitude – within ourselves, and within our world. By changing ourselves, and joining together with people all over the globe, we can change the world.

Here’s how:

  • Beginning 20th of Adar Alef, Feb. 29th, until Rosh Chodesh Nissan, April 9th, 5776/2016 pick any gratitude fostering activity that resonates with you – and commit to one (or a combination) for 5 minutes a day for these 40 days.
  • Say Nishmat Kol Chai once a day for these 40 days. This is one of the most beautiful poetic adoration’s in all of liturgical literature, recited as part of the Shacharit (morning) service on Shabbos and Yom Tov immediately following Shirat Ha-Yam (“Song at the Sea”). It is also said at the Pesach Seder. It is a tefillah of praise and appreciation to Hashem for all of the goodness that He endlessly bestows upon His beloved people. The first paragraph was known in Mishnaic times, the second was composed during the Talmudic period and the concluding part was added during the Geonic period. Of unknown authorship.   You can find the tefillah in every siddur as part of Shabbat Shacharit or on the following link in English:  click here
Please note the Jewish day goes from sundown to sundown – so, for example, anytime between when the sun sets on Monday evening and when the sun sets on Tuesday evening counts as one day.
  • If it’s too much to do both, choose either #1 (a gratitude building exercise) or #2 (saying Nishmat) for these 40 days. The combination of prayer and action is very powerful. But we are all human, with busy lives. We can do whatever we can do. Every little bit makes a difference. Better to take on something very small for these 40 days, and actually do it. Nothing is too small.
  • To sign up click here on the ‘Google Doc’ link.  You will receive little doses of inspiration and tips/ideas on gratitude leading up to and throughout the 40 days.
  • For any questions or comments, please be in touch: OritRiter@gmail.com,
 
Please share with friends, family, co-workers, whomever…
WE WANT THIS TO BE GLOBAL SPREAD IT TO EVERYONE!
Here are a few ideas for cultivating gratitude:
 
Start a gratitude journal. Every day spend 5 minutes writing down things that you feel grateful for;
  • Make your family mealtime a regular time for sharing the (little and big) miracles you each experienced throughout your day;
  • Any time you catch yourself complaining, ‘pay a fine’ of immediately saying 3 blessings you have in your life;
  • Create a wall of miracle pages – tape up pages to your wall, and each night write 3 little, ‘every day’ miracles you experienced that day;
  • Gratitude Jar – place a jar on your table where you (or each family member) regularly write something they appreciate or value in the other. Then, once a week, pull them out and read out loud as a family;
  • Make a ‘Noticing-the-Good’ notebook – choose a significant person in your life (or a person that maybe annoys you a bit but you want to improve your relationship with) and every day write down one positive trait you see in them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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